Monday, April 18, 2011

Video Of The Day: Katy Perry f/ Kanye West- E.T.

For The Fellas: The Friend Zone

Sometimes you just don't catch the hints she's throwing to let you know you're just a friend...and that's where you'll stay. I got you! No need to waste any more time in the endless friend zone. Check out these list of signs that you're only a friend.... and will prob NOT move into boyfriend status.

10. There's no tension or awkward moments.
9. She doesn't laugh at your bad jokes.
8. She talks about other girls that you should be interested in.
7. She's never interested in doing what you want to do.
6. She introduces you to others as "my friend".
5. She stays away from you in public.
4. She asks for favors.
3. When you hang out, she brings along a third wheel.
2. She doesn't lay a finger on you.
1.She gushes over other men.

Living Single...

So Cosmo Mag came out with the top three fears that keep you single... (and sometimes lonely) ... Let me say that there is nothing wrong with being single. Nowadays, I think there are more professional, smart, & beautiful women out here who are refusing to settle for a bad relationship for the sake of having a 'man'. I think it's far worse to be in a relationship and still feel single. Who wants that? I think it's important to focus on you first. That way, you know your worth, know what you want, and most importantly... you know what you DON'T want. Check out Cosmo's Top 3... Feel free to add more...

#1 - Fear of Being Single Forever
Though this feeling is only temporary, mamy of us feel likw out lonely ruts have no end in sight. One of the big problems with this is that a man can sense this despair (and desperation) bin you and run for the hills. Try to stay positive and you'll attract a quality person who will love being arounf you.

#2 - Fear of Losing the Guy
When you start to become afraid this guy you're making a connection with might leave you, you can start to do some weird things. You  might be a completely independent person, but become clingy and possessive if you think your guy wants out. Try to trust that he's with you because he wants to be and keep that line of communication open. That way, if either of you are having second thoughts, you can talk about it instead of checking each other's cell phone histories and forbidding him to leave the house.

#3 - Fear He'll Turn Out Like Your Ex
This one doesn't take a lot of explaining. If you've come out a bad relationship, make sure you take a little break from dating. That way, you're not tempted to see the new man you start dating with the filter of the old emotions and patterns that were going on with your ex.

Source: Cosmo Magazine

Friday, April 8, 2011

E. Badu - Fall In Love (Your Funeral) Video

I love me some E. Badu....She just gives me life. lol This is a pretty dope video because you get to see her in her element. People were trippin about her breastfeeding in the video... Really? *blank stare* Peep her babydaddy, Jay Electronica, sleeping next to her. *side eye* Hey now :)

Shout out to Creative Control...

I CAN'T!!! Racks Freestyle - Cracks on Cracks on Cracks LMAO

On the low......why is she flowing tho?

Monday, April 4, 2011

*side eye* Lessons From The Mistress

Just imagine if you had the chance to talk to the woman that's been sleeping with your man. Considering you haven't knocked her teeth out, it might be interesting to hear why she thinks your man cheated on you...

Here are a few lessons for YOU from mistresses and cheating husbands:
  • Have confidence. Insecurity is a very unattractive trait. Besides, men more often have affairs to meet their emotional needs, regardless of what their wives look like. Take care of yourself for your health and self-esteem as much as to keep him interested.
  • Pay attention to him. One expert says the #1 thing men report when they cheat is a lack of attention from their wives or girlfriends. Be fully present and really listen to him.
  • Be appreciative. Don't assume he knows you're grateful for things he does. Men like to know their roles don't go unnoticed. Be sure to tell him what you appreciate about him.
  • Date each other. When you find time for a date night or add little romantic touches to a long-term relationship, he'll remember he's got the total package: history, plus sexy fun.
  • Have sex! Sexual desire comes and goes, but try to have some physical closeness at least once a week. Keep sex a special and joyful part of your relationship.
  • Stay interested. Ask him about his work. One reason men have affairs with women they work with is that co-workers notice his struggles and accomplishments. Imagine how he feels when he tells you how he kicked ass at work and you ignore him!

Blank Stare News: Damn B*tch, My Feet Hurt (Acapella)

LMAOOOOOOOO I'm no stranger to saying this...but I never thought to make a song about it. Ma'am... I can't take you, that song, or that weave serious. *blank stare*

Nicki Minaj SLAYS Lil Kim In A One Minute Tragedy

*DING DING* Down Goes Kim!!! Nicki Minaj is letting these folks know why she holds the crown as the Queen of Hip Hop right now. She dropped a diss track to Lil Kim called - TRAGEDY - out the blue and even tho it’s only a minute long, she pretty much kills Kim on the joint.

Btw... Did anybody ever get their Black Friday mixtape from Kim? Oh ok.

Monday, March 21, 2011

Meet DJ Face - The 6-Year Old Problem

Wow... Check Out This Young DJ. Don't Be Surprised If You See This Lil Fella DJ'n Your Next Party. He May Put Some Of These DJs Out Of Business. LOL

Jennifer Hudson Opens Up About Success, Tragedy, & Amazing Comeback

Chris Brown Sings About 'Skeet Cologne' On The Russ Parr Morning Show

Chris Brown stopped by The Russ Parr Morning Show for their Millionaire's Breakfast Club w/fans. The video was posted on the World Star Hip Hop site and received over 200,000 hits. If you are familiar with the RPMS, you'll know that we do a musical skit with artists when they come into the studio called - 'Skeet Cologne'. Although you can not hear the music on this video, we were definitely singing to a track. Chris Brown jumped right in and did a hilarious & classic version with us. Even though myself and Alfredas got slammed on the WSHH site for singing background... I think the skit was pretty damn funny.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

GOOD READ: 10 Reasons Why You’ll Never Be Wifey

  1. You love drama. You act like you hate it, but you love it. If you didn’t love it, you would stay away from it. You and drama should date.
  2. You have daddy issues that make it hard for you to trust men. Okay, you don’t know your father. It left you scarred. Get over it. It is probably your mother’s fault anyway. She’s a bad judge of character.
  3. You party too much. If your feet are on a dance floor more than it is on a kitchen floor – you are not worthy. No, you are not. Not yet.
  4. You flirt too much. When in a relationship, that is a no-no. Shut them down. When a man says something to you, and you giggle, he interprets that as “She wants me.” Stop giving them false hopes. Or perhaps they aren’t false hopes. You dirty whore, you.
  5. You can’t hold a decent conversation about decent topics. There is more to life than fashion, music, gossip, and sex. We can still talk about sex though. But, more action.
  6. Your hygiene isn’t up to par. Sand under your fingernails. Unkempt hair. Dirty Belly-button. You smell like a hamster. You ought to be ashamed.
  7. You smoke cigarettes. Sure, you look fine now. But, what kind of person would want to be in a long term relationship with you – knowing you’ll be wrinkled like a California raisin in the near future.
  8. You take advice from your single friends. Those lonely hoes are single for a reason. Don’t you forget that.
  9. You have high expectations with nothing to offer. What do you bring to the relationship other than another man’s children?
  10. You’re a hoe. Sure, you may be reformed now. But, you still used to be a hoe. No, we will not get over your past. There are people on death row who committed murders 8 years ago. You should have been more discreet with your hoe activities. Maybe next lifetime…
-Nova Giovanni

Charles Barkley Is 'TURRIBLE'!

Charles Barkley Goes IN On The Miami Heat. I Love Watching Charles Barkley's Commentary. He Says Whatever The Hell He Wants...And I Love Him For It.

On The Road w/ Chocolate Drop

Check out Kevin Hart's Rapper Alter Ego 'Chocolate Drop'... Hilarious!

For The Fellas: The Morning After

So she rocked your world last night... Now, it's the morning after. For some, this can be an awkward moment. Here is a list of Morning After Do's & Don'ts for the fellas.

Morning After Do's:
  • Making some sort of breakfast or at least a pot of coffee in the morning, unprompted
  • Walking the lady's dog
  • Not being afraid to go for round 2 when the sun is up
  • Being able to keep a light, fun mood about the whole experience
Morning After Don'ts
  • Being in a bad mood when you wake up next to her, which adds tension to an already awkward situation
  • Lingering around her house like you live there when she hasn't invited you to
  • Bolting out the door faster than you can say, "What's your last name?"
  • Not offering her anything to eat or drink, thus making her feel unwelcome (and hungry)

The Break Up.... Cosmo Style

Here are 6 signs that your man is planning to break up with you:

He overloads at work. He may feel bad about the relationship aspect of his life, so he takes the opportunity to gain confidence at work ... a place you can't follow him to. How convenient.

He's stops inviting you to hang with his friends. If you don't see his friends much anymore, it's probably because he has decided the end is near and wants their support.

He keeps convos neutral. If your conversations aren't deep or intimate the way they used to be, he is trying to distance himself from you so that he doesn't feel as close to you. Now, he won't feel as bad when he ends the relationship.

He boxes you out. Body language is key. If your man is angling his body away from you, he doesn't feel the same way for you anymore.

He stops texting you the stupid little stuff. If a guy is really into you, he can't help but to talk to you all the time. If his texts are less frequent and are for business purposes only (forget about the cute hello), it shows he's not thinking of you as much.

Cuts off the PDA. When he's really into you, he wants everyone to know that you are his. If he stops the PDA, it shows that you may be single soon.


Crackhead Chunking Competition


Wednesday, February 23, 2011

*Blank Stare* Of The Day

I CAN NOT WITH THIS!!! I Wonder What Movie That Is...

Flaws And All...


Yes, it's true that many men love skinny, big-breasted women with perfect teeth, but there are many men who are wild about some so-called "imperfections." Yahoo Shine gives a list of 5 of the most attractive "flaws" out there.
  1. Hook Nose
  2. Chubby Tummy
  3. Small Breasts
  4. Looking Gross (meaning, when a woman isn't all gussied up)
  5. Gap Teeth
In such a superficial day and age, do you think that a woman's imperfections are praised and adored as much as the long hair, big booty, flat tummy 'illusions' walking around?

I always say that we are ALL shallow to a certain extent. But, when it's all said and done, personality will always outweigh beauty. Men notice the beauty first but peel away the layers and see if there is any substance there. Building a relationship off of looks is like building a mansion on quicksand. It looks hella nice but over time, that beauty will slowly disappear.......then all you'll have left is busted broad still looking for you to take care of her. Smh. Everyone has their flaws...and like my girl, Kimora Lee Simmons says...You have to accentuate your flaws because it's what makes you, YOU. I believe that wholeheartedly. So, work it girl!

P.S. A bad weave is not a flaw, you're just a hot mess. Fix it. :)

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Video Of The Day: Cee Lo Green- Bodies

Mike Epps As Ted Williams 'The Voice Guy'

Ahahahahahaa He Is A Straight FOOL!

You're Not Married And It's Your Fault...

Or at least that's what Tracy McMillan thinks. Tracy is a TV writer whose credits include Mad Men and The United States of Tara. She wrote an article about why women are not married and suggests that it's the woman's fault. Being a single woman in this dating scene has left me with little hope of finding my equal. Can I get to the relationship stage first? Damn! I'm not going to say that all men are dogs, lames, liars, and cheaters but there are plenty of them. But I also think that women have to take responsibility for the type of men they date. What are you attracting:? Why? A lot of times women allow this reckless behavior and then wonder why after a year, that man has not changed or grown. Sometimes we stay in situations longer than we should still hoping for a different outcome or because we don't want to feel like we've failed. And then there are some women who don't carry themselves as 'wifey material' and wonder why they don't get 'wifed'. (Then again, these days...hoes are getting 'wifed'. But that's a different blog. lol) So without further adieu... The Top Six Reasons You Are Not Married:

1. You're a Bitch.
Here's what I mean by bitch. I mean you're angry. You probably don't think you're angry. You think you're super smart, or if you've been to a lot of therapy, that you're setting boundaries. But the truth is you're pissed. At your mom. At the military-industrial complex. At Sarah Palin. And it's scaring men off.

The deal is: most men just want to marry someone who is nice to them. I am the mother of a 13-year-old boy, which is like living with the single-cell protozoa version of a husband. Here's what my son wants out of life: macaroni and cheese, a video game, and Kim Kardashian. Have you ever seen Kim Kardashian angry? I didn't think so. You've seen Kim Kardashian smile, wiggle, and make a sex tape. Female anger terrifies men. I know it seems unfair that you have to work around a man's fear and insecurity in order to get married -- but actually, it's perfect, since working around a man's fear and insecurity is big part of what you'll be doing as a wife.

2. You're Shallow.
When it comes to choosing a husband, only one thing really, truly matters: character. So it stands to reason that a man's character should be at the top of the list of things you are looking for, right? But if you're not married, I already know it isn't. Because if you were looking for a man of character, you would have found one by now. Men of character are, by definition, willing to commit.

Instead, you are looking for someone tall. Or rich. Or someone who knows what an Eames chair is. Unfortunately, this is not the thinking of a wife. This is the thinking of a teenaged girl. And men of character do not want to marry teenaged girls. Because teenage girls are never happy. And they never feel like cooking, either.

3. You're a Slut.
Hooking up with some guy in a hot tub on a rooftop is fine for the ladies of Jersey Shore -- but they're not trying to get married. You are. Which means, unfortunately, that if you're having sex outside committed relationships, you will have to stop. Why? Because past a certain age, casual sex is like recreational heroin -- it doesn't stay recreational for long.

That's due in part to this thing called oxytocin -- a bonding hormone that is released when a woman a) nurses her baby and b) has an orgasm -- that will totally mess up your casual-sex game. It's why you can be f**k-buddying with some dude who isn't even all that great and the next thing you know, you're totally strung out on him. And you have no idea how it happened. Oxytocin, that's how it happened. And since nature can't discriminate between marriage material and Charlie Sheen, you're going to have to start being way more selective than you are right now.

4. You're a Liar.
It usually goes something like this: you meet a guy who is cute and likes you, but he's not really available for a relationship. He has some condition that absolutely precludes his availability, like he's married, or he gets around town on a skateboard. Or maybe he just comes right out and says something cryptic and open to interpretation like, "I'm not really available for a relationship right now."

You know if you tell him the truth -- that you're ready for marriage -- he will stop calling. Usually that day. And you don't want that. So you just tell him how perfect this is because you only want to have sex for fun! You love having fun sex! And you don't want to get in a relationship at all! You swear!
About ten minutes later, the oxytocin kicks in. You start wanting more. But you don't tell him that. That's your secret -- just between you and 22,000 of your closest girlfriends. Instead, you hang around, having sex with him, waiting for him to figure out that he can't live without you. I have news: he will never "figure" this out. He already knows he can live without you just fine. And so do you. Or you wouldn't be lying to him in the first place.

5. You're Selfish.
If you're not married, chances are you think a lot about you. You think about your thighs, your outfits, your naso-labial folds. You think about your career, or if you don't have one, you think about doing yoga teacher training. Sometimes you think about how marrying a wealthy guy -- or at least a guy with a really, really good job -- would solve all your problems.

Howevs, a good wife, even a halfway decent one, does not spend most of her day thinking about herself. She has too much s**t to do, especially after having kids. This is why you see a lot of celebrity women getting husbands after they adopt. The kids put the woman on notice: Bitch, hello! It's not all about you anymore! After a year or two of thinking about someone other than herself, suddenly, Brad Pitt or Harrison Ford comes along and decides to significantly other her. Which is also to say -- if what you really want is a baby, go get you one. Your husband will be along shortly. Motherhood has a way of weeding out the lotharios.

6. You're Not Good Enough.
Oh, I don't think that. You do. I can tell because you're not looking for a partner who is your equal. No, you want someone better than you are: better looking, better family, better job.

Here is what you need to know: You are enough right this minute. Period. Not understanding this is a major obstacle to getting married, since women who don't know their own worth make terrible wives. Why? You can fake it for a while, but ultimately you won't love your spouse any better than you love yourself. Smart men know this. I see this at my son's artsy, progressive school. Of 183 kids, maybe six have moms who are as cute as you're trying to be. They're attractive, sure. They're just not objects. Their husbands (wisely) chose them for their character, not their cup size.
Wow... Interesting. I have to say that I agree with a few of these as it relates to myself. What do you think? What would you add to the list? Let's talk.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

SAY IT AIN'T SO!!!! Bey & Jay Separating???

Beyonce showed up to the Grammy's with Gwyneth Paltrow and many were wondering where the hell Jay was. Of course the rumors started circulating and low & behold, our FAV (insert sarcastic *smirk*) gossip site, Media Take Out, is reporting that the couple is splitting! I'm hearing that a source the couple had been having marital problems & have agreed to a trial separation. They say that it's because Hov wants kids NOW and Bey is just not ready. *side eye* So supposedly, Jay is moving into a leased mansion in Cali while Beyonce plans to remain in New York. *side bar* Beyonce and Jay-Z had dinner with Gwyneth Paltrow last week in NYC. 

I don't believe the rumor. Between Jay & Bey and Will & Jada... I still believe in true love....especially Black love. Smh. I tell you, these gossip sites will claim you dead, pregnant, divorced, and sick all in the same week. I'm sure Jay & Bey have problems in their relationship just like any other couple. We sometimes forget that celebs are in fact...humans. And yes, they make mistakes and have the same issues as the next person. Even if they are a super rich, power couple... imagine super rich, power couple problems. They are a million times worst than the broke, tryna come up problems. LOL I'm going to keep my eyes and ears open about this one.

Lil Kim...... SAT YO ASS DOWN!

I love me some Lil Kim, but at this point, my girl is just playing herself with this Nicki Minaj. It's no doubt that she is, and will always be - The Queen Bee. However, it's Nicki's turn. Let Nicki Minaj rock and show how you inspired her. I like Nicki and I think her marketing strategy is genius. It's one thing that I'm convinced of...and that's that Lil Kim has NO real friends. Cuz if she had some, they would NOT have let her release this... Listen for yourself:


In this day and age, real friends are so hard to come by. You have to appreciate the people that come into your life. I would definitely rather have a handful of friends than a bunch of 'faux' friends. I've come to learn that everyone does NOT have your best interest at heart. Wow, when you think realize someone in your circle is an opportunist... it makes you put things into perspective. You can't tell everybody, every thing. Sadly, you can't share your success with everybody. I always say- "Sometimes the same ones cheering for you on the sideline are the same ones trying to get you out the game." *side eye* Loyalty is the number one rule...and I am loyal to a fault. The best quote to describe me as a friend I found from @PiscesAreUs: "A friend is someone who will bail you out of jail. A Pisces friend is the one sitting beside you saying, 'Damn that was fun'.

Here are the 5 kinds of friends a woman can count on for just about everything:

1. The uplifter. This woman's favorite word is yes! Anything you want to do, she'll tell you (with major enthusiasm and support) to go for it.

2. The travel buddy. A great travel buddy is flexible, adventurous, willing to try new things and comfortable with quiet time when you both need it.

3. The truth teller. She tells it like it is, but the hard truth is spoken with love.

4. The "girls just wanna have fun" friend. This friendship is all about spontaneous good times and laughing it up.

5. The unlikely friend. She might be much older or younger, much richer or poorer or from a different culture-a variety of friends add richness to your life.


Monday, January 10, 2011


Hello All...

It's a new year and there are new & exciting things developing. I know I've been slackin lately with the posts but we're back on track. Follow me on twitter: @OneRadioVixen. Keep checking back for crazy videos and stories.